Guiding Your Adult Children to Be Financially Independent
When it comes to important advice for your adult children, financial education should always be top of mind. After graduating from college, they’ve already met important milestones, ones you will never forget. However, it’s time to teach them how to become financially independent, which is no easy task. Your child can also become a high-earner at an early age, and it starts with negotiation.
Having children is one of the most fulfilling experiences of our lives, it’s a milestone. We live for those who call us “mom” or “dad,” and we revolve around the memories they get to create and the futures they’ll build. We see them graduate and they’re one step closer to becoming independent adults.
By this time, we begin to dream of seeing them graduate from the best universities in the country, ready to pursue their dreams and become professionals, adults. And even though our love for them is endless, and we will forever support our children, they are Americans’ toughest financial burden.
After 22+ years of standing beside your children and holding their hands as they accomplish and aim for their biggest dreams, they are almost ready to fly on their own. The missing piece? A guideline on how to achieve financial freedom as a young adult. Help your soon-to-be financially independent children learn all about their personal finances and, most importantly, how to negotiate high-earner salaries once they begin their professional journeys.
Entering the Tall Buildings
Negotiating high-earner pay can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to be. By taking the right approach and mindset, you can teach your children how to secure a better compensation package effectively and confidently.
Rather than writing an article for you, this is an article for you to discuss with your children or even send it for them to read and act upon. You are their best example, but what they do from now on to reach their goals is up to them.
1. Determine Your Worth
This is probably not new to you, you’ve already been here, and the best way to teach is by example. The first lesson for young adults is to remind them of their worth in the job market. Many recent graduates don’t take the time to think about their equity compensation at the start of their careers. For one, they know the experience is the most valuable outcome. They’re also likely aware that they will not start at the top but rather build their career up. And finally, they’ll always know they can count on your support along the way.
The important thing is, the sooner they understand their value, the sooner they become independent. Depending on the industry they’re entering, there are different points of reference to help determine their market value by comparing skills, experience, and qualifications to those of other professionals in similar roles.
A Few Examples
PayScale.com is a popular website for salary research. PayScale offers a free salary report tool that enables you to input your job title, location, years of experience, and other relevant information to get a personalized salary report. In addition, the report provides information on your children’s market value, including base salary, bonuses, and benefits.
Glassdoor.com is another website for salary research. This website offers a calculator that provides a salary range for different positions, based on data from thousands of job listings and anonymous salary reports. The calculator also provides information on company ratings, reviews, and interview questions for various companies.
It’s crucial to note that these websites are only a starting point for research. While they can provide valuable information on salary ranges, they may not be wholly accurate or up-to-date. It’s important to consider other factors, such as the company’s size, location, and industry when negotiating a salary.
Your children have additional resources offered by a modern and interconnected world. It’s also important to remind them of traditional networking methods and talk to others in their industry of interest to better understand what is considered fair compensation. Contact colleagues, attend industry events, and connect with professionals on LinkedIn to expand your network and gain valuable insights. The resources are almost infinite when they are maximized.
2. Understand the Company’s Needs
To effectively negotiate a salary, and start in-house, it’s important to understand the company’s needs and what they are looking for in an employee. This will help tailor the negotiation strategy to their specific requirements.
Critical questions to position your value:
How can you contribute to the company’s success?
How are your skills highlighted in this role, and how do they help achieve the company’s goals?
Why are you a good investment for this company? And how is your requested compensation justified?
3. Be Confident
Confidence is essential when negotiating your salary. The biggest advice for your children in this chapter of their lives is “believe in yourself and your abilities, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you deserve.”
4. Additional Steps - From an A to an A+
Besides the general mistakes, knowledge is what will distinguish your child the most in their entry-level position. Awareness is key, and knowing about different types of equity compensation is another important tool to ensure they know how to grow their wealth exponentially.
Types of Equity Compensation
Companies can offer several types of equity compensation, including stock options, restricted stock units (RSUs), and performance-based equity awards. Have a conversation with your children and ensure they are experts in the compensation types offered to them.
Stock options allow them to purchase company stock at a predetermined price. Meanwhile, RSUs are another typical type of equity compensation that provides employees with a specific number of shares of company stock at a future date.
Tax Implications
Make sure to remind them of their taxes and tax implications. They’ve probably dealt with it slightly in the past, but taxes will now inevitably become protagonists in their careers.
Equity compensation can have significant tax implications, especially for high earners. It is important for employees to understand the tax rules associated with equity compensation to avoid any surprises come tax time. Having a meeting with your financial advisor is probably the best idea for your child. They can have a conversation that prepares them not only to negotiate but to become well-knowledged in the workforce world. Your financial advisor can also be their financial advisor, and they can slowly start working on a personalized plan of their own.
Maximizing the Value of Equity Compensation
You can maximize the value of equity compensation by developing a long-term strategy. One strategy is to hold onto company stock for the long term, allowing it to appreciate in value. Another strategy is diversifying their portfolio by selling some of their company stock and investing in other assets. These options should all be available for your children.
The Bottom Line
Your child’s biggest asset in this situation is you, an example they can look up to and trust. Remind them that negotiating high-earner pays requires a combination of research, preparation, and effective communication skills. By understanding market value, the company’s needs, and its own strengths and weaknesses, it is possible to craft a negotiation strategy that maximizes its chances of securing a fair compensation package. With these tips in mind, your child can confidently negotiate a high-earner pay and take their career to the next level.