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Thinking about Divorce? Can't-Miss Financial First Steps

Thinking about Divorce? Can't-Miss Financial First Steps

Thinking about Divorce? Can't-Miss Financial First Steps

Zoe Team

4 min read

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Key Takeaways

  • Emotions can lead to impulsive decisions that jeopardize your long-term financial security during divorce.

  • Securing financial records and understanding joint assets are critical first steps.

  • Professional guidance from a Certified Advisor is essential to navigate divorce without costly mistakes.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the first steps to take during divorce?

Prioritize gathering all financial documents, understanding your assets, and seeking professional advice before making major decisions.

How do I protect my finances during divorce?

Avoid emotional decision-making and work with a certified advisor to ensure a fair and secure financial outcome.

Why is professional help important?

Certified advisors help manage the financial complexities of divorce and provide objective support to prevent long-term economic damage.

Considering divorce? Emotions can cloud your financial decisions and result in costly mistakes. Kim, a Zoe Certified Advisor, walks you through key steps.

The words separation and divorce come laden with emotions. Positive, negative, confusing… going through a divorce feels like an emotional whirlwind. Not only are you doing your best to move forward daily, you are also thinking about the future and how to find order, as many elements of your life change.

Although the particular details and circumstances that come with separation and divorce vary from couple to couple, it is helpful to remember you are not alone. If, for example, you’re the spouse who has not been as closely involved in the financial aspects of your home, it may feel as though you have to “start from scratch.” Nonetheless, planning your financial future post-divorce can feel empowering, instead of overwhelming, if you prepare thoughtfully along every step of the way.

When beginning to consider a divorce, the first step is to assess the situation. Start by asking yourself how you will continue to afford your life and lifestyle both during and after the divorce. Due to the stress of the situation, individuals often forget they must also establish a plan for how they will handle their finances, including where they will live, during the process of separation and divorce.

Needs, Wants, Wishes

Kim C., one of Zoe’s Certified Financial Advisor, recommends “focusing on the three most important aspects in each category. it can help gain clarity for both you and your ex-partner.”

Make a list of the three most important must-haves that you need out of the divorce, the three things (large or small) that you want from the divorce, and three things that would be nice to have.

Think about what your spouse needs and wants, as well. Doing so will help define the best possible way for it to be amicable and a win-win situation for all involved.

The Right Experts

Carefully selecting the team that is going to assist throughout your divorce process is crucial. In any separation or divorce process, the five experts to have on your side are:

  • Attorney

  • Certified Public Accountant (CPA)

  • Mediator

  • Mental Health professional

  • Divorce Financial Advisor

You will be looking for expert professionals who can excel in providing you with experienced insights while facilitating cooperation, communication, and mediation. These professionals will be working together closely to develop the very best solutions for you, so be sure to calmly and carefully evaluate their experience, credibility, and style.

The “In” Spouse or the “Out” Spouse

As the “in-spouse”, you ́ve been managing your marriage’s financial life. Thus, you likely already have the experience and professional relationships to transition to single life. In this case, be sure to verify that the experts on your team are aligned with your needs, wants, and wishes. Additionally, consider if your current financial advisor will be the right fit for the more nuanced and time-intensive divorce process. You’ll want someone who has experience with people in your similar situation.

If you are the “out-spouse” you are the spouse who is starting from scratch. You are likely to be the one who does not have a relationship with the family attorney, accountant, or financial advisor and thus do not have full knowledge of the existing assets, insurance plans, or monthly budget;If this sounds like you, it is particularly important to find experts and advisors who will thoughtfully help you plan and advocate for you.

Crucial First Steps

The Divorce Planning Checklist will be helpful resource for you during this process. Crafted by Zoe Certified Financial Advisors experienced in planning for divorce and divorcing couples, it will guide you through the crucial fist steps.

The Divorce Financial Advice series includes articles discussing everything you want to keep in mind, such as key first steps like protecting your valuable jewelry and to the importance of setting up a personal P.O. At this early stage of your divorce planning, gathering all of the financial information (income taxes, tax returns, proof of spouses employment income W2 or 1099…the debts, the real state records) can also be hugely helpful in case access gets cut off in the future.

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Investment advisory services are provided by Zoe Financial, Inc. (Zoe Financial), an investment adviser registered with the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC). Registration does not imply a certain level of skill or training. Learn more about Zoe Financial on the SEC’s Investment Adviser Public Disclosure website. Brokerage services are provided by Zoe Securities LLC and Apex Clearing Corporation, members of the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority Inc. (FINRA) and Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC). Learn more about Zoe Securities and Apex on FINRA’s BrokerCheck website.

The information in the visuals above is for illustrative purposes only and does not represent an actual user's account, balance, or return. Zoe Financial does not provide tax or legal advice.

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Disclosure: This page is not investment advice and should not be relied on for such advice or as a substitute for consultation with professional accounting, tax, legal or financial advisors. The observations of industry trends should not be read as recommendations for stocks or sectors.


Investment advisory services are provided by Zoe Financial, Inc. (Zoe Financial), an investment adviser registered with the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC). Registration does not imply a certain level of skill or training. Learn more about Zoe Financial on the SEC’s Investment Adviser Public Disclosure website. Brokerage services are provided by Zoe Securities LLC and Apex Clearing Corporation, members of the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority Inc. (FINRA) and Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC). Learn more about Zoe Securities and Apex on FINRA’s BrokerCheck website.

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